by Trudy Shines | Jul 11, 2024 | Chakra, Coach, I Do, Radiant Coach, Trauma Survivors, Yellow-energy day
A Day for Action and Ambition: Embrace the Energy of Yellow
Yellow is the color of energy, passion, action, and ambition. For trauma survivors, harnessing the power of the yellow chakra can be transformative. This center energy source is where all colors stem from, fueling your journey to thriving.
Take a moment today to focus on your ambitions and the actions that will propel you forward. Embrace the energy and power within you. Remember, you have the passion and focus needed to achieve your goals.
Key Attributes of Yellow Chakra Energy Day:
- Passion: Let your enthusiasm guide you.
- Action: Take decisive steps toward your goals.
- Power: Recognize the strength within you.
- Energy: Channel your vigor into productive endeavors.
- Ambition: Set your sights high and strive for excellence.
- Focus: Stay determined and unwavering in your pursuits.
Daily Affirmation
“I am a powerhouse of energy and ambition. I take action with passion and focus, knowing that I have the power to achieve my dreams.”
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Feel the radiant energy of the yellow chakra guiding you towards a vibrant and thriving life.
by Trudy Shines | Jul 9, 2024 | Chakra, Coach, I am, Radiant Coach, Uncategorized
Unraveling Trauma: The Power of Gentle Transformation
In the journey of healing and growth, the philosophy “Never cut what can be untied” holds profound wisdom. For trauma survivors, this metaphor becomes a guiding principle in the process of untangling the complexities of their experiences, leading them toward a radiant, thriving life. As a certified Radiant Coach for trauma survivors, I embrace this gentle approach, fostering resilience and transformation without severing the intricate threads of my clients’ pasts.
The Gentle Art of Untying
Understanding the Knots
Trauma survivors often carry deep-seated emotional knots, formed by past experiences of abuse, neglect, or hardship. These knots represent unresolved feelings, memories, and beliefs that can hinder their progress. Instead of forcefully cutting through these knots, my coaching philosophy focuses on understanding and gently untying them. This approach honors the survivor’s journey and acknowledges the significance of each knot in their story.
Patience and Compassion
Untying emotional knots requires patience and compassion. In my coaching practice, I create a safe and supportive space where clients can explore their traumas without fear of judgment. This process involves active listening, empathy, and validation of their experiences. By approaching their pain with kindness, clients gradually learn to untie their emotional knots, releasing the tension and embracing healing.
Building Resilience through Untangling – Rediscovering Joy
The journey of untying knots leads to rediscovering joy and purpose. Trauma survivors often struggle to find happiness and meaning in their lives. Through my coaching sessions, I guide clients in reconnecting with their passions and strengths, helping them to see beyond their trauma. This rediscovery process is like gently unraveling a tightly wound knot, allowing their true selves to shine through.
Shaping a Life of Meaning
As knots are untied, survivors gain clarity and a renewed sense of purpose. My coaching approach emphasizes setting achievable goals and creating a roadmap for personal and professional growth. This structured process helps clients build resilience and empowers them to shape a life of meaning. By untying the knots of their past, they can weave a future filled with hope and possibilities.
The Transformative Power of Coaching – Personalized Guidance
Every survivor’s journey is unique, and so are the knots they carry. My radiant coaching practice offers personalized guidance tailored to each client’s specific needs. Whether they are adults who were once at-risk youth, victims of sexual/spousal abuse, or military/war survivors, I provide the tools and support necessary for untying their emotional knots and achieving lasting transformation.
Integrating Energy Work
Incorporating chakra colors and energy work into my coaching practice further enhances the process of untying knots. By focusing on the energy centers within the body, clients can address pain points and pain bodies, facilitating deeper healing. This holistic approach aligns with the philosophy of never cutting what can be untied, promoting balance and harmony within the mind, body, and spirit.
Never Cut What Can Be Untied
The quote “Never cut what can be untied” is often attributed to Joseph Joubert, a French moralist and essayist. This serves as a powerful metaphor for my radiant coaching practice. By gently untying the emotional knots of trauma survivors, I help my clients build resilience, rediscover joy, and shape a life of meaning. This compassionate and patient approach honors their past while empowering them to thrive in the present and future. Together, we embark on a journey of healing, transformation, and radiant living.
by Trudy Shines | Jul 2, 2024 | Chakra, Coach, Creative Habits, I Desire, Orange Day, Radiant Coach, Trauma Survivors
The Power of Hope in Healing and Growth
In my journey as a radiant coach for trauma survivors, I came across a profound saying in “Life’s Little Instruction Book”:
“Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have.”
This simple yet powerful statement resonates deeply with the core of my coaching practice. As someone dedicated to helping individuals transition from surviving to thriving, the essence of hope is a guiding light for my three distinct coaching personas.
Adults Who Were Once At-Risk Youth/Foster Children
Firstly, for adults who have navigated the complexities of growing up as an at-risk youth or foster child hope is often a fragile yet vital element in their lives. My coaching approach focuses on reigniting this hope, thereby empowering them to envision and create a future filled with possibilities. By fostering resilience and rediscovering joy, we can turn hope into a driving force for positive change.
Victims of Sexual/Spousal Abuse
Secondly, survivors of sexual or spousal abuse often find themselves in a place where hope seems elusive. My mission is to help these individuals reclaim their power and rebuild their lives, grounded in the belief that hope can catalyze healing. Through personalized support and a compassionate approach, we work together to transform pain into strength, allowing hope to flourish once again.
Military/War Survivors
Finally, for those who have served in the military or experienced the traumas of war, hope can be a beacon in the darkest times. My coaching for military and war survivors is centered on harnessing hope to navigate the path of recovery and growth. By embracing hope, these individuals can rebuild their lives with renewed purpose and resilience.
In conclusion, hope is not just a fleeting feeling but a fundamental element in the journey of healing and growth. As a coach, I am committed to nurturing hope in every individual I work with, ensuring it becomes a steadfast companion on their path to a thriving life.
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by Trudy Shines | Jun 18, 2024 | Coach, I Do, Juneteenth, Radiant Coach, Trauma Survivors
Triumph Over Trauma: Building a Legacy of Strength and Support, Inspired by Juneteenth
Growing up as a black woman with a mother suffering from paranoid schizophrenia, exacerbated by Huntington’s disease, was a journey filled with challenges and resilience for me. Despite the adversities, I emerged strong, guided by a foundation of strong family leaders and a legacy of never giving up and always learning. Today, I am not just a survivor but a beacon of hope, paying forward my experiences through my coaching business and an inspiring documentary project.
A Legacy of Resilience
My family has a rich history of perseverance and strength. My story is deeply intertwined with the legacy of my ancestors, who instilled in me the values of resilience and continuous growth. Growing up in a household marked by the challenges of my mother’s mental health struggles, I found solace and strength in the unwavering support of my extended family. This foundation helped me navigate the complexities of my upbringing and emerge as a strong, determined individual.
Turning Adversity into Strength
My journey from a trauma survivor to a radiant coach is a testament to my resilience. My experiences have shaped me into a compassionate and understanding coach, particularly attuned to the needs of trauma survivors. I believe in the power of learning and growing through helping others, a philosophy that guides my coaching practice. I work with individuals who have faced significant traumas, helping them transition from merely surviving to truly thriving.
Paying It Forward: My Coaching Journey
In my coaching practice, I focus on building resilience, rediscovering joy, and shaping a life of meaning for my clients. I incorporate teachings, mindsets, and philosophies from various sources, blending them with my unique experiences to offer holistic support to trauma survivors. My brand, BeYourTruShines, reflects my commitment to authenticity and empowerment, guiding my clients to embrace their true selves and shine brightly despite their past traumas.
“Running to Harvard”: A Story of Perseverance
I am also working on a documentary titled “Running to Harvard,” which chronicles the untold story of mixed African- and Native-American Dolphus Stroud. Denied funding for travel due to the color of his skin, Dolphus set out on a 2,000-mile journey by foot to compete in the 1928 Olympic Trials at Harvard Stadium. This story of determination and perseverance resonates deeply with my own experiences and the values I uphold.
Continuing the Legacy
As we commemorate Juneteenth and celebrate the resilience of black men and women throughout history, my journey serves as a powerful reminder of the strength and determination that have defined generations. My work, both as a coach and a documentarian, is a tribute to those who have fought tirelessly for their dreams and a beacon of hope for those who continue to struggle.
In conclusion
My story is one of triumph over adversity, of turning personal challenges into a source of strength and inspiration for others. Through my coaching business and documentary project, I am paying forward the lessons of resilience and continuous growth, embodying the legacy of my family and inspiring others to never give up. As we look back on the progress made and the struggles overcome, let us continue to support and uplift those who are determined to shine, just as I do every day.
by Trudy Shines | Jun 17, 2024 | Coach, I Desire, Radiant Coach, Spiral Journey of Success, Trauma Survivors
The Spiral Ladder of Success Journey
Inspired by Harry H. Gillespie
Discovering Spirals in Nature
As a trauma survivor, you may often feel as if you’re running in circles, getting nowhere fast. Imagine yourself as Alex, experiencing this same sensation. While seeking solace in a garden, Alex observed the spiral patterns of nature, particularly in the arrangement of leaves and flowers. This observation sparked a curiosity within him. He realized that these spirals are a fundamental pattern not only in the plants he was observing but also in our bodies and the vast cosmos. This insight helped him see that what feels like going in circles might actually be part of a natural, forward-moving progression, echoing the spirals found throughout nature.
Spirals in Our Lives
This observation led Alex to reflect on his own life’s patterns. He recognized that the spiral is not just a physical shape but also a metaphor for growth and evolution. Just like the DNA in our cells and the galaxies in the cosmos, our life’s journey also moves in spirals, not straight lines. This realization brought a new perspective on his challenges and setbacks. They weren’t failures but parts of a larger, ongoing journey.
Changing Our Perspective on Success
As your Radiant Coach, I want to share this perspective with you. Often, we view success as climbing a vertical ladder—every setback feels like a devastating fall. But if we shift our view and see our path as a spiral, we realize that what seems like going backward could actually be moving forward on a different arc. Each challenge represents a more in-tuned level for success, providing a new skill or perspective for us to learn.
Embracing Challenges: Alex’s Journey
Alex began to see each obstacle not as a vertical fall but as a move to the next level of awareness on a spiral staircase, leading him to a better understanding and greater resilience. He learned that true success is not about reaching a peak but about how we rise, adapt, and evolve through our experiences. This journey of continuous growth and self-discovery was his path toward genuine fulfillment.
In Conclusion: The Spiral Ladder of Success
For us, like Alex, the path to our dreams is a beautiful, ever-unfolding spiral. Each twist and turn adds depth to our experiences, helping us to navigate life with a new mindset. As we face life’s complexities, remember, the spiral leads us ever upwards, if we embrace its turns with courage and an open heart.
This narrative reframes our journey, highlighting the spiral as a natural pattern of life and growth, encouraging us to see each challenge as part of a greater whole—moving us not just forward, but upward.
